My high sex drive has always been a source of friction (no pun intended) in our relationship, is this normal?

Hi Toothpaste Kisses, the difference between sexual drives between a couple is always a difficult issue to deal with. For there are no rights or wrongs in this matter, it's something that must be sorted out between the two of you. No matter how difficult it is to talk with him about this, it is something that you must get out in the open. I see no obvious solution but really it needs you both to talk about the problem. If all you can get out of it is a devastating argument then I see little way forward, for the input of both if you is needed to resolve the problem. If he is not willing to talk about this, then I guess you weren't meant to be together. I guess even when you're in bed together you can't arouse him. There is no quick answer to your question, but you must try again to talk it through and see if you can't come some mutual understanding on the issue. If he doesn't want to talk about it then I see little point in you staying with him. Sex isn't a big thing in relationships overall, but it becomes so if the difference in opinion is unachievable. So if it's getting to you that badly, the only thing to do is break.